INTRODUCTION

I’m here to get real with you. If you want a better life, you can have it. Just be prepared for the highs, the lows ... and most importantly, getting out of your current comfort zone. Transforming your life, growing, and evolving are all difficult, yet beautiful. 

The work you are about to do to improve your current life circumstances after reading this book will be worth its weight in gold. I promise that your results will be substantial and so very precious.

Working on yourself is the most valuable thing you will ever do, and I am deeply grateful for being a part of your journey, so thank you.

I will be writing this book as if I were having a conversation with my younger self and I will be explaining to you what I wish someone would have told me years ago. Although, I do truly believe in three things; 1, we have a path set out for us 2, timing is key and 3, there is always a beautiful lesson to be learnt in every experience ... both the good and the bad.

 Even though my life has had a lot of trauma and darkness, it has also had a lot of light and beauty. I would not change any part of it for the world.

After trauma comes the opportunity to heal. After unhappiness comes the determination to reach happiness.

After being mistreated and disrespected comes gaining your own personal strength and valuing yourself. After failure comes fighting towards success. If we choose so.

I am guessing the reason why this book crossed your path is that you have reached a point in your life where you want more. You want the answers. You want to heal. You want to move on from your past traumas. You want to be genuinely happy. You want to be successful in your relationships and in your career. You want to feel more positive. You want to have unwavering, deep-rooted confidence. You want to remove the anxiety and the self-sabotage.

Could you imagine achieving everything that you have ever wanted? Imagine how your life would be if you entertained your potential as much as you entertained your self-doubt. Could you imagine what it would feel like to wake up every day feeling genuinely happy? Grateful? Loved? Knowing that the Universe has always got your back?

Could you imagine what it would feel like to finally move on from your previous traumatic experiences? To finally heal from everything and everyone that has ever hurt you. To have the ability to be able to trust people again. How empowering would it feel to finally feel in control of YOU?

Think how amazing it would feel to be free from the crippling anxiety and to be able to ignore all of the negative self-sabotage talk in your head. How about being completely resilient to everyone’s negative bullshit and making YOUR life incredible.

How would you feel and how different would your life look like if you developed a true, unshakeable self- confidence? I am here to tell you that after you read this book, this will all be your new normal ... and then some!

Unlike many self-help books you read, I’m not going to sit here and tell you that I have the right to write this book because I have a billion-pound business, that I don’t have anything negative happen to me in my life, that I have seven figures in my bank account and that I visit ten exotic destinations via my private jet each year.

However, what I am going to say is that I am extremely happy, content, optimistic, motivated, passionate, truly loved and I do adore my life. I am going to tell you that I have been through hell, and I have come out of the other side. I have healed from my past trauma. Please don’t forget that I am also forever growing, evolving, and improving as situations unravel, and life unfolds.

So, the reason for me writing this book for you is to put all of that past pain and suffering into something productive and worthwhile. To make it all worth it. I was put through the trauma and the life I have lived so I could do something substantial with it and help others that need it.

Yes, I do wish that I knew everything in this book many years ago, but the reality is that we are exposed to what we need at exactly the right time. I have gathered and collected this knowledge over many years, which has brought me to this exact point in my life, so that I can now gift it to you, and you can implement it into your life.

I would not have been ready to write this book before this exact moment ... but now is the right time. The right time for me to share this information with you and the right time for you to receive and act on it.

Happiness and success are as individual as a fingerprint. Someone’s ideal happiness and goal in life may be to get divorced, to live alone in the middle of nowhere with no WIFI and grow their own vegetables. Someone else's dream may be to marry someone, to be with that person for the rest of their life and home school their children in the South of France. Someone else may want to be completely committed to their career, be a CEO, and have ten dachshunds in a high- rise apartment in New York City.

Whatever your happiness and success looks like in your mind, I’m here to tell you that it is achievable for you.

I went from a less-than-ideal childhood in a broken home, to an even worse young adulthood which I will go into in more detail throughout the following chapters. I sought out to find the road to recovery, the ability to heal and to find my happiness during my mid to late twenties.

I wanted to fully understand why I was like how I was. What caused it and more importantly, HOW I could change it. I started reading self-help books, having counselling, hypnotherapy, taking medication, trying meditation, having reiki healing sessions and basically a lot of self-questioning.

Achieving success and happiness to me was something that I never thought I would attain before, but luckily, after healing and growing, I now not only believe that it is possible, I believe that I deserve it. And so do you.

If I can go from being anxious, unhappy, having insomnia, being broke, alcoholism, angry, paranoid, and pessimistic to happy, content, motivated, loved, in control, passionate, positive, and optimistic, then so can you (believe me!).
To me, that alone is success.

I was fighting for survival since I was a child, and I have learnt lessons from experiences that I never should have been forced to face. Which I have no doubt that you have too and that is exactly why you are reading this book right now.

We deserve to be free from that pain. We deserve to live a successful, content, and peaceful life surrounded by true love. We have earned it!

I started reading self-help books about nine years ago and since then, I have read hundreds. Many of their messages are similar, however, authors explain things in their own way. This means that even if you too have read hundreds of self- help books, I may explain something to you in a way that may finally work for you and just ‘click’.

Plus, I have always thought that even if you learn just one new thing from a new self-help book, it was worth the read right?

When I gained all of this precious knowledge it completely transformed my life. I want that for you. I will explain to you absolutely everything that I wished someone told me years ago. Your life will start to dramatically improve as soon as you read this book and start putting all of it into practice ... that I can promise! It will genuinely feel like you have suddenly just woken up from a long, deep sleep.

So, whether you are new to all of this or you just want to expand your already broad knowledge on self-help, you will benefit from reading this book.

I will explain how to completely change your mind-set by being conscious of your thoughts and emotions.

How to move on from your past traumas. How to get exactly what it is that YOU want in life and not just what society says you should have.

I will help you to gain a deep-rooted self confidence that no one can take away from you. I’ll help you to remove the crap that you do not want in your life, including the negative self-talk, self-sabotage, anxiety, and anyone who messes with your vibe.

I will touch on the incredible benefits of spiritualism, meditation, crystals, your personal energy, Chakras, Reiki healing and even arm you with your own spiritual tool kit!

I will also hit you with the scientific facts as to why you currently are how you are. That way you can begin to heal yourself and learn how to not only gain, but also maintain, the incredible life that you deserve.

So, get comfortable, keep an open mind, and get ready to change your life for the better.

You are about to see how every bad experience and detour you have gone through has led you to exactly where you needed to be. 

Right here.

Are you ready?

Let’s go ...